Thursday, November 12, 2009

Dreamed i committed murder(self-defense)?

i was in the women's bathroom and heard a man come in, i looked around the corner and he dropped his pants and began masturbating to a magazine. i called my husband, no response. next thing he was approaching me while attacked him with donatello swords and killed him. i left out and it wasn't my current husband but my exhusband with my current stepson..i told him to wait to call the police until i ate an apple....WTF....p.s. i killed the dude by hacking at his neck and no blood! WHAT CAN THIS SIGNIFY?

Dreamed i committed murder(self-defense)?
My response to this would be... the womens bathroom is a place where you would normally feel secure enough to use said purpose and go on with your day. I would in this context say that the bathroom represents personal space and personal will. The man entering in my opinion is purely representative of an aggressor or violation of your will or boundaries. This can be a person or situation; however if it is a person I am leaning towards them being male and possibly making advances that threaten your personal boundaries/space. The sexual/self-serving nature of this suggests problems very personal (private or with family) and one-sided against your better interests. The murder suggests that you wish very strongly for a change and attacking with more than one weapon to me suggests fearless determination or strong conviction. I would chose to take a pro-active stance with the person/problem causing these difficulties in your non-dream world. The fact that you waited to call the police whilst you ate an apple is a plausible symbol that you are ready to take control and let the violating party(s) wait for YOU now instead, for them to yeild to your will. The neck is a very vulnerable part of us, to me this is an indication that the area of concern is also very personal to the other person or will be easily overcome (obstacle(s)). The lack of blood indicates that it will be less of a struggle than you once thought and that the outcome will be better in the end ("no blood spilled"). My guess is that when you face this problem the other party/obstacle will be accomodating or at least change will occur. Additionally the fact that your husband wasn't "there" indicates to me a possible problem with your communication, either you are afraid to 'say' or he is afraid to 'hear', and the fact that you fight the struggle by yourself instead of with help shows independance, determination, and resolve but can also indicate being alone. One last detail, the image of your Ex-husband, possibly a return of problems that you experienced during your relationship with your ex-husband. If I were to take a shot in the dark, some possible pet peaves, possibly concerning sexuality/decency/dignity of which pornography is none of these proper. I hope this is well received. If it is, please say so, as well as otherwise. Best wishes!
Reply:Again you are stuck in a relation where you are not happy Be careful because you can have more problems than you expect
Reply:Killing is putting an end to something negative in your life. Probably someone that bothers you probably doing things that aren't decent/nice or selfish(masturbating). No blood because it means there will be no struggle on the other persons part to fight back. Thats good for you because it wont be complicated to end the trouble they are giving you.
Reply:Its good to know I'm not the only one who's had this type of sporadic and scary dream. Typically dreams depict things we hope. You've probably never have and never will murder anybody. But things get to you... maybe things that you can't stop or things you just don't take the efforts to adress. You have a soft and sensitive heart, which is good. These things anger you i.e man masturbating to a magazine. It seemed like nobody else cares about this offensive behavior i.e. can't get hold of your husband. You're not gruesome, neither do you appreciate gore. No blood, no nastiness. When its all done, you leave the bathroom (the site of passion) and back to normal life, and its not what you expect(ex-husband instead of present one). Craving normality and fulfillment, you do the closest thing... eat. Not sure about the apple.





My advice: Don't be afraid to politely let people (co-workers, friends, or family) know that you are offended by whatever it is. Let them know you're bothered. Then, maybe you'll feel the satisfaction that you couldn't seem to find in your dream.


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